‘WHO AM I?’: Fayaz Pasha’s New Book Puts Self-Awareness Before Search for the ‘Right’ Life Partner
‘Before finding the right partner, ask whether you have become one yourself,’ says author
‘ಸರಿಯಾದ ಜೀವನ ಸಂಗಾತಿಯನ್ನು ಹುಡುಕುವ ಮೊದಲು, ನೀವೇ ಸರಿಯಾದ ಸಂಗಾತಿಯಾಗಿ’: ಫಯಾಜ್ ಪಾಷಾ ಅವರ ‘WHO AM I?’ ಕೃತಿಯಲ್ಲಿ ಆತ್ಮಜಾಗೃತಿ, ಭಾವನಾತ್ಮಕ ಪ್ರಬುದ್ಧತೆ ಮತ್ತು ಸಂಬಂಧಗಳ ಹೊಸ ಚಿಂತನೆ
Bengaluru: Before asking, “Whom should I marry?”, perhaps a more fundamental question deserves attention: “Do I truly understand myself?”
That question forms the heart of “WHO AM I? — The BOSS Framework,” a new book by Fayaz Pasha, Founder and President of Life Partner Academy. Published on September 10, the book explores self-awareness, emotional maturity, values, character and responsibility as foundations for meaningful relationships and better life decisions.
“Before we ask whether we have found the right life partner, we should ask whether we have become the right life partner ourselves,” Pasha says, encapsulating the central argument of the book.
Understanding Yourself Before Understanding a Partner
While marriage preparation is an important part of WHO AM I?, the book goes beyond matrimonial choices. Pasha argues that many relationship difficulties may arise not simply from choosing an incompatible partner, but from entering relationships without adequately understanding one’s own emotions, expectations, responsibilities and values.
“Self-awareness is not merely about knowing our strengths and weaknesses. It is about understanding the values, emotions, expectations and responsibilities that shape the way we relate to others,” Pasha says.
The book consequently encourages readers to look inward before taking major decisions involving relationships, family, education, career and personal growth.
A Message Beyond Marriage
Designed particularly for teenagers and young adults approaching adulthood and marriage, the book also seeks to engage parents, educators, counsellors, mentors and community leaders.
Its ideas can serve as conversation starters for families and educators discussing emotional maturity and responsible relationships with younger generations. The underlying message is motivational yet practical: healthier relationships begin with individuals willing to understand themselves and accept responsibility for their choices.
Through Life Partner Academy, Pasha has been working on marriage preparation, relationship education and responsible decision-making. The book extends that mission into a structured written framework.
Pasha holds a Bachelor of Commerce degree and a Post Graduate Diploma in Materials Management and is certified in Relationship Coaching, Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and Life Coaching.
WHO AM I? — The BOSS Framework is available in paperback through Amazon and Notion Press, and as a watermarked digital PDF through Life Partner Academy.
